There was a relatively open gay culture in Manhattan in the last decades of the 19th century, consisting of private clubs where guys might honestly solicit the business of various other guys. A 2012 blog message at The Art of Manhood gives some wonderful images from that time as well as area.
George Chauncey's 1995 Gay New york city: Gender, Urban Society, and also the Making of the Gay Man World, 1890-1940 is an excellent resource of details.
From that publication, this story of a young clinical pupil's visit to the city as well as very first visit to The Slide, a Bowery club where, he discovered, gay men met and also felt comfy in comparison to the media depictions of such places as eyeglasses of evil as well as debauchery:
Moreover, the record of one more male's conversation with a \"degenerate type\" at the Slide likewise suggests that the guys who were made part of the spectacle at such resorts nevertheless handled to transform them right into something of a haven, where they can collect and locate support. Charles Nesbitt, a clinical trainee from North Carolina who visited the city around 1890, took the slummer's scenic tour with a pal. As he later on recalled, he went to a number of beer yards on the Bowery where \"male freaks, dressed in elaborate feminine night costumes, 'rested for firm' and also received a payment on all the drinks offered by the house to them and their customers.\" Such men worn male clothing at the Slide, he uncovered, however still sat for firm as their drag queen equivalents did in other places. Fascinated, Nesbitt asked among the males, called \"Princess Toto,\" tO' join his table; to his surprise, he located the other \"abnormally smart\" and innovative. Princess Toto, he swiftly chose, was \"the social queen of this team\" and also \"had pretty apparent suggestions concerning his own psychological state and that of his others.\" Nature had made him by doing this, Toto assured the young clinical trainee, and there were numerous guys such as he.
He indicated his pride in the openness of \"my kind\" at areas like the Slide, calling them \"superior\" to the \"freaks in imaginative, professional and other circles that practice perversion surreptitiously.\" \"Believe me,\" the trainee remembered him commenting, \"there are lots of them as well as they are good consumers of ours. \" Sensing the clinical student's interest, Toto invited him to participate in a ball at Walhalla Hall, among one of the most popular of the several Lower East Side halls that neighborhood social clubs rented to hold their events Nesbitt went and found some five hundred same-sex male as well as women pairs present, \"waltzing sedately to the songs of a great band.\" In addition to the male pairs there were \"quite a few ... manly looking ladies in male evening dress\" dancing with various other ladies, much of whom appear to have actually thrilled the student as being of \"good\" background. \"One can rather easily envision oneself,\" he recalled with amused incredulity, \"in a formal evening round area among respectable people.\" (Chauncey, 40-41)
Picture from THE SLIDE AS WELL AS THE IMPORT TAX: NEW YORK CITY'S MANY NOTORIOUS 19TH CENTURY GAY BARS The Bowery Boys. June 15, 2015, reprinted from the 2015 NYC Satisfaction Guide.