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Inic though may be, the show’s re ncept — a group of explibly well-off pals mockg and horndoggg at each other ad fum — always bored me to tears. Offhandly seeg a few episos wh iends over the years did nothg to improve s reputatn. From what I uld tell, <em>Friends</em> was a show about Straight People Antics maly nsistg of bad romantic munitn, slavish votn to genr rol, and a shy veneer of mid-twenti promiscuy.</p><p>But last week, as I sat down to tentnally watch the show for the first time, I realized I’d been wrong about the show. <em>Friends</em> is more than jt a goofy seri of ntrivanc based on hyperbolilly strict standards of heteronormativy; ’s a show about beg regularly harassed and huiated for performg a queer sexual or genr inty, maly by one’s clost nfidants. And though ’s temptg to give the show some slack bee of s cultural ntext, that don’t actually exce any of s toxicy. In fact, wh the benef of hdsight, ’s easy to see how the show bolstered homophobia and transmisogyny our culture for years to e.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>Often, when <em>Friends</em> unr fire for s msy history wh queerns, fans and advot pot to the way the show was received upon s arrival the mid-90s. <a href=">Commentg</a> on the show’s one-night revival 2016 for the <em>Chigo Tribune</em>, Bethonie Butler oped that “[w]rg <em>Friends</em> off as homophobic ignor the cln of Ross' ex-wife, Carol, and her partner, San,” two supportg characters who helped propel the show to two GLAAD Media Award nomatns and one w for Outstandg Comedy Seri.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>It’s certaly te that any semi-rpectful portrayal of lbian love 1990s televisn was rare at bt, but that don’t mean San and Carol’s plotle was <em>good</em>. As supportg characters, their relatnship is nstcted primarily to make Ross unfortable and emasculated by appearg to tmp his agile masculy. Ross unsuccsfully bids to attach his last name to theirs when namg their child “The One Wh the Sonogram At the End,” and reflects glumly that he should have known Carol was gay bee she drank beer “straight om the n” the seri pilot (“The One Where Moni Gets a Roommate”); even when Ross and San bond “The One Wh the Lbian Weddg,” ’s wh a dig at Ross’s masculy, as San asks him to dance wh the tongue--cheek offer “I’ll let you lead.” Outsi of their relatnship wh Ross, neher character is pecially well-fed.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="4az74"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="wc0go"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bectqB body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Of urse, San and Carol (or more accurately, Ross and his own hangups) are far om the worst source of queerphobia <em>Friends</em>; that dub honor belongs to the soulls sarsm-peddler Chandler, and how he treats his father. Throughout the seri, Chandler exprs mortifitn at havg a “gay dad,” as Charl’ g-out not only end Chandler’s parents marriage, but led to embarrassment om his schoolyard peers — embarrassment that ntu to adulthood, as the <em>Friends</em> st routely roasts Chandler on this topic. Three seasons before Chandler’s father plays a speakg role, “he” is already a punchle; “The One Wh the Embryos” (which <em>The A.V. Club</em> lled “one of the bt half-hours the s format ever produced”), the fact that Chandler’s father performs a Las Vegas burlque revue lled “Viva Las Gaygas” is played for lghs when the gang nstcts a “quiz show” about how well they know one another.</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="sdnhgp"></div></div><p>I put sre quot around “gay dad” and “he” the precedg paragraph bee Charl Bg’s genr inty is mangled throughout the seri by a team of wrers wh only the shallowt unrstandg of how <a href=">trans and drag culture</a> overlap. Though Charl is referred to as a gay male drag queen and burlque performer, the character’s few on-screen appearanc <em>Friends</em>’ seventh season seem to dite she is actually a transgenr woman, given that she apparently prents as female 24/7 and is implied to have done so for years. This is a pretty safe assumptn to make, given that seri -creator Marta Kffman told Butler as much for her <em>Tribune</em> review. (There’s more textual evince, too: when Chandler and Moni travel to see “Viva Las Gaygas” “The One Wh Chandler’s Dad,” they’re waed on by a visibly trans wars played by Alexis Arquette — who don’t appear fond of Moni’s cuty bumblg over her pronouns.)</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>If we assume that Chandler’s father is a trans woman and not a cis drag queen, be all the more apparent that she is a walkg punchle. Chandler, we disver “The One Wh Chandler’s Dad,” has been actively avoidg a relatnship wh his father for years, even ghostg her when she traveled to Manhattan seekg renciliatn. (Dpe this celty and emotnal manipulatn, Chandler offers her no apology.) If she even has a name bis “Charl” (or her objectively excellent drag name, “Helena Handbasket,” which I’ll e om here on), viewers never learn , the better to aggrsively misgenr her “The One Wh Chandler and Moni’s Weddg Part 1.” Upon crtg the thrhold at the rehearsal dner, Helena is immediately subjected to a barrage of adnamg and implic misgenrg om her ex-wife and son, cludg Mrs. Bg’s tly reprehensible le “Don’t you have a ltle too much penis to be wearg a drs like that?” (Like San and Carol before her, Helena’s story is not her own; her characterizatn is limed to only those tras which most huiate Chandler.)</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="la7eel"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut 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In a <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><em>Gay Tim</em> terview</a> this Febary, Turner said “I don’t thk aged well,” rellg of Chandler’s father that “everyone thought he was jt drsg up.” But the show’s stars have rejected any notn that the seri which rocketed them to stardom uld possibly be hurtful or problematic, wh Matt LeBlanc lashg out at those takg “pot shots” at the seri <a href=">a recent terview wh the BBC</a>, sistg that the show was about “them that stand the tt of time” like marriage and fay, and that he don’t partake “risque humor.”</p><p>LeBlanc has had support om mastream queer voic, too. In Butler’s mentary, she c GLAAD Director of Entertament Media Ray Bradford as sayg Helena “wasn’t what we hate seeg on TV by a e” bee “there was nothg tragic” about her story — except, of urse, the years of huiatn and rejectn om her fay. In fairns, pared to the wealth of media featurg trans characters as ad sex workers and crazed killers, Helena is a downright realistic and enjoyable character: she’s a great performer wh a fabulo high-femme style and a strong sense of self-assurance. It’s everyone around her who has issu, and that sense, her cln really did reprent a step forward for televisn, holdg a mirror up to 1990s Amerin culture all s unflatterg glory. It's easy to look back and assume that tolerance is <em>really</em> what's beg mocked; led away om Chandler’s mother to avoid g a scene, Moni's father remarks “I didn't even get a chance to pretend I'm okay wh ,” one of the show’s most barbed one-lers.</p><p>But to leave the discsn there is to ignore the eper problem wh <em>Friends</em>: s “realistic” portrayal of cultural attus towards queerns end up rercg those same attus, not drivg society forward. Although female characters like Phoebe are allowed to explore their sexuali, ostensibly-cis men like Joey, Ross, and pecially Chandler are not given the same chance wh their genr. Instead, they’re ridiculed and shamed for the slightt viance. In a c-plot durg “The One Wh Chandler’s Dad,” Joey disvers the thrill and fort of wearg women’s unrwear and gh to Phoebe about how he’s “always wonred about” pantyhose, while Ross is revealed to have taken on a female inty, “Bea,” durg childhood; both are roundly mocked (wh Phoebe even tellg Joey that “’s important” for him to take off the panti and reprs the feelgs they give him).</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="b2qiul"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div><div data-attr-viewport-monor="" 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should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="k5ggt"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bectqB body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>This is nothg pared to what Chandler unrgo, however. In the pilot, Chandler idly m that he sometim wish to be a lbian, the first of many plot pots that suggt the character has transgenr clatns (others clu effemate behavr after listeng to a hypnosis tape, a classic trope “forced femizatn” pornography, and implitns that he only engag “manly” activi like watchg sports to ga acceptance as “one of the guys”). But rather than enurage their pal to explore his inty, Chandler’s iends stead take every opportuny to ri his queer quirks; after Chandler tells Moni an embarrassg story about Ross, Ross retaliat by tellg her about the time he “kissed a guy.” (We n tell that “a guy” here means “a trans woman” bee Ross says she’s a girl at first, and Chandler’s fense is “ was dark and he was a very pretty guy.”) Hilary ensu, as Chandler’s attempts to save face are flected by the ever-potent eback “whatever du, you kissed a guy.”</p><p><em>Friends</em> is not a toxic show bee of s overt homophobia or transmisogyny. It’s not a toxic show bee of the more subtle ways reflects the bigotry of s time. It’s a toxic show bee <em>both</em> of the thgs are te about a s that won natnal acclaim as a wholome, apolil show while actively addg to the gleeful mockery queer people Ameri have to face. The llective nostalgia over <em>Friends</em> is still powerful — powerful enough to ax Netflix to payg <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">$118 ln for streamg rights</a> — and as such, still fluenc cultural attus about queer genrs and sexuali. That’s not a good thg for a show that peppers random episos wh queerphobic subplots and throwaway gags.</p><p>If you n enjoy <em>Friends</em> 2018, more power to you, but be hont wh yourself about what you’re watchg: a bunch of whe people stg around and makg fun of whoever “acts gay” between hookg up. Nostalgia might make thgs seem rosier, but make no mistake — <em>Friends</em> is a terrible show about cel people who tear others down bee of their perceived queerns, and s legacy will be forever tated as a rult.</p><p><em><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Samantha Riel</a> is a wrer and edor whose work on transgenr culture and polics has prevly appeared VICE, Bch Magaze, and The Establishment. 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